I would suggest that being an illegal or a criminal or a rapist is a lifestyle choice too.
Civil society has an abiding interest in lifestyle choices that offend societal mores, standards or create safety, security and welfare problems. Let’s start with the Ten Commandments and civil and criminal codes. Rule of law, not of men.
This is why I reject the crit theory that law is just the tool of an oppressor.
It would be foolish for any student of the philosphy of morality to think laws, mores are an artifice.
This is why I think libertarians are kooks–they keep writing up their list of victimless crimes–and they have such an expansive concept of the canon and hymnal of the High Holy Church of Anything Goes.
Guess they never read Aristotle or John Locke, or, as the Donald would say–whatever.